Expensive Annie: I wish to add a remark to “Jealous of Mother,” the letter from the daughter whose mother discovered a beautiful husband and at all times appeared so joyful.
Counting on exterior elements to unravel inner points isn’t a sustainable resolution. Her jealousy appears to stem from a number of sources: unresolved resentment, emotions of unworthiness and, most importantly, low vanity.
True happiness and confidence will solely come when she confronts and works by way of these inner struggles.
No good relationship, job, pal group or trip can resolve this for her. What she actually wants isn’t a terrific boyfriend to quell her jealousy however a wholesome dose of self-love and self-acceptance.
With that basis, she will begin to construct a safer and content material life, no matter exterior circumstances. — It’s an Inside Job
Expensive Inside: Thanks in your insightful letter.
You carry up a beautiful and vital level — feeling good about ourselves actually is an inside job. It’s as much as every of us to work on optimistic self-love. This isn’t at all times a simple journey, however it’s no less than value a strive. By specializing in nurturing our personal internal happiness, we will construct a stronger basis for our well-being, which finally results in more healthy relationships and a extra fulfilling life.
Your perception is a compassionate reminder that the trail to feeling good begins inside.
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